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Buddy for children and adolescents

Loneliness is not tied to age. It also occurs among children and adolescents. Those who feel lonely like someone to listen. Listening, thinking along and challenging are things that buddies do.

The role of the volunteer

The volunteer buddies know what it is like to encounter problems as early as childhood. Most buddies study psychology or are pursuing other social studies. Other buddies draw on their personal experiences. This allows them to connect well with the environment of the young people. They make contact without judging. That works stimulating for the young people. They feel understood and dare to show more of themselves.

The purpose of buddy contact

Every child and young person works toward their own goal. Examples of such goals are:

  • Exploring their own neighborhood and connecting with activities (hobbies) in that neighborhood.
  • Practicing social (resilience) skills and making and keeping friends.
  • Developing their own opinions and increasing self-reliance.
  • Dealing with money and financial problems.

Practice

The contact that a volunteer builds with the participant is development-oriented. This is a methodology in which De Regenboog Groep trains and supervises its volunteers. Working according to that approach requires at least six months to a year of time and (bi-)weekly appointments.

The personal click between the volunteer and the child or young person is very important. The enjoyment of the contact also determines success. From this a bond of trust develops. The child or young person can pull up to the buddy and through the contact gain more self-insight and self-confidence.

The volunteer provides positive experiences and the couple celebrates successes together. Even when times are tough, the buddy encourages the young person to get moving.

Become a buddy?

Do you feel like making a difference. You are between the ages of 18 and 28 (or slightly older) and are available for the next six to 12 months.
Then apply here.

Need support?

You are looking for the support of someone you trust, who really wants to listen to you and can support you. In addition, you are between the ages of 9 and 25.
Then sign up.

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"Children need to climb trees"...

Els Vredeveldt (31) is buddy to Ismail (9). A few times a month she picks him up from his parents' house in West. They always go out together. Climbing trees, for example. "In the beginning, kids in the neighborhood asked who I was. Are you Ismail's teacher? they asked. I looked at Ismail and asked, 'yes, what am I to you anyway?' He didn't have to think long and said, 'you are the shelter.'" We've known each other for a year now. Through De Regenboog Groep, I became his buddy. I could choose from three children. Ismail was looking for someone who loved animals and nature. I thought: that would suit me. I also like being outside. Children should be climbing trees, not sitting inside. Ismail's father is ill. Els doesn't know exactly what he has, but she suspects depression. He sleeps a lot. Ismail's mother is at work all week, and his two older sisters are busy with their own lives as well. If Els didn't visit, Ismail would be inside a lot. A shame, Els thinks. "Ismail is a very smart and curious little boy. Such a little boy naturally wants to discover the world. The other day he was standing on top of a climbing frame, shouting with clenched fist: 'Els, look...I am king of the world!' I love that little man's optimism. I learn a lot from that. I give him Els confidence, he always says. Then I say, 'You're doing it yourself. All by yourself!" Though it was not easy in the beginning to gain his trust and that of the family. Ismail has been through a lot. Also at school. He is regularly bullied. Do you know what he said when I stood at his door the very first time: 'Can you be trusted...?' I thought it was a great question, but remarkable for an eight-year-old child. Within a few weeks, we became the thickest of buddies." Ismail is a pseudonym Interview: Nicolline van der Spek / Photo: Merlin Michon
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