Buddy for children and adolescents
Loneliness is not tied to age. It also occurs among children and adolescents. Those who feel lonely like someone to listen. Listening, thinking along and challenging are things that buddies do.
The role of the volunteer
The volunteer buddies know what it is like to encounter problems as early as childhood. Most buddies study psychology or are pursuing other social studies. Other buddies draw on their personal experiences. This allows them to connect well with the environment of the young people. They make contact without judging. That works stimulating for the young people. They feel understood and dare to show more of themselves.
The purpose of buddy contact
Every child and young person works toward their own goal. Examples of such goals are:
- Exploring their own neighborhood and connecting with activities (hobbies) in that neighborhood.
- Practicing social (resilience) skills and making and keeping friends.
- Developing their own opinions and increasing self-reliance.
- Dealing with money and financial problems.
Practice
The contact that a volunteer builds with the participant is development-oriented. This is a methodology in which De Regenboog Groep trains and supervises its volunteers. Working according to that approach requires at least six months to a year of time and (bi-)weekly appointments.
The personal click between the volunteer and the child or young person is very important. The enjoyment of the contact also determines success. From this a bond of trust develops. The child or young person can pull up to the buddy and through the contact gain more self-insight and self-confidence.
The volunteer provides positive experiences and the couple celebrates successes together. Even when times are tough, the buddy encourages the young person to get moving.
Become a buddy?
Do you feel like making a difference. You are between the ages of 18 and 28 (or slightly older) and are available for the next six to 12 months.
Then apply here.
Need support?
You are looking for the support of someone you trust, who really wants to listen to you and can support you. In addition, you are between the ages of 9 and 25.
Then sign up.